The only point to going for the blood test is that they’ll require it, I’m sure, to get an FET underway. My home test this morning was negative, and it picks up at 20 units. If I’m not at 20 units already, then what hope is there?
At least by testing I’ve help my hopes low so I’m not going to get a call full of hope and then crash back down to earth later. This is why I don’t bother hoping very much for anything, to prevent much disappointment.